Greetings to all of u,
I have something to share with all of u. Last day while returning from kolkata by Coalfield express I got my seat in front of a fellow who was returning to asansol with his father.
That guy used to eat things and dump it under his seat, he did this almost 3 to 4 times and I decided that i will ask him to stop this the next time he do this again. But lacking in courage I can't. again he did the same thing and being frustrated about his behavior atlast I encouraged myself and asked him a question - " if he is sitting with his frnd in his home and both are eating something and his frnd used to dump wrappers and that sort of things near his sitting then what will be his reaction, he replied that he will ask him to throw them in the dustbin." Then I remimded him what he had done, astonishing my mind he didn't felt guilty for that but argued that he is doing a job which is not to worry as it is INDIA and here every things goes like that. He was a student of Asansol engg. college also his father supported him and argued that this type of system can't be changed, and its not going to work anymore and some more kinda stuff. But they standed on their view that they are not wrong. On request of her daughter we stopped the discussion. But after half n hour he ( father ) reliased that they were wrong and appreciated my view. after that we had some frndly discussion and he was very much impressed that we the young generation are going to change our lovely nation.
What I want to say that, before asking that person not to litter I was hesitating a lot but after I was being appreciated I felt ashamed that i must do the same thing when he littered for the first time.
Also I want to add that if u are going to ask some not to do some thing wrong then be polite, what I was, other wise the situation might become worse as I experienced it. Always try to change their mind. Also be ready that you are going to hear a lot from other but take it calmly with a smile on face. Now I am sure that those 3 person along with others who were parting us in the journey will also not do this ever.
I would also like to say that his father's profession is business but he told me that he also thought to come in politics but he can't. To this I replied with a gentle smile that everyone thinks but we are here to do, and greeted him bbye.
thanks
Friday, February 19, 2010
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